LOVE ROLLERCOASTER: Why is it so hard to be positive...

Why is it so hard to be positive...

That was what I Google earlier today... Clearly I was upset about something and these days, I do my best to stay the course that I’ve set – BE POSITIVE. No matter who said what, whatever it is, I remind myself that everyone will always have their own opinion about something – that’s how they feel then let it be. I have to know and learn to separate their feelings from mine and not be too sensitive about it.

I’d be lying if I say that I feel nothing when someone upsets me. Especially when you sincerely mean to do well towards them and you get remarks that is quite hurtful. Whenever this happen, I tell myself, remember the Intention – WHY I did or say what I said. It doesn’t matter that people don’t recognise it, all that matter is that I sincerely wanted to do it and at that point of time, I feel happy.

Sometimes you just have to live and let it flow... Life goes on and how everything will flow for us is how we handle Life’s Situation. We are all responsible for our own Selves, who better to take care of us other then US? I will always remember what Lov said to me when I feel down or upset – “People can always say a lot of things to you but you can always choose who you want to ignore...”

I am clear about this new Path that I’ve set my mind to go but I just can’t shake that tiny bit of lingering negativity. I didn’t even feel like switching on the laptop and just sleep it all away. I did sleep but woke up feeling draggy. The laptop was looking back at me and I thought “what the heck!” Google my feelings out and found this chat forum. I was reading through and someone mentioned EFT. Curious, I Google that and found this website on Tapping.

I tried my very first Tapping and the feeling I felt earlier, *POOF*, instantly gone! I did a couple more exercises and felt much lighter and a lot better. I will definitely add this to my daily meditation ^_^

So now I know what to do when I’m feeling low, Tap it all away! Heehee! I feel like I have this amazing magic wand now!

*Tap tap tap tap* *Clap clap clap clap*

Haha! Now that chicken dance song is playing in my head! ^o^

Posted on 4/30/2010 04:42 PM - by UrsMineUs

I HEART

- anything Home related (from interior design to home accessories)
- Azuki beans!!
- Bags, Shoes... (maybe cos the only thing that change is the design haha!)
- Baking (therapeutic ^_^)
- Chocolate cake, Cheesecake... oh well, all cakes and pastries ^o^
- Comic characters: Hulk, She-Hulk, Iron Man, Hellboy, Death, Groo, Mystique, the animals in Liberty Meadows (haha!), and many others...
- Comics: it varies from time to time (depending on my mood), but I do love Liberty Meadows, Groo, Death (Neil Gaiman)... Ooh ya! Nancy ^_^ and er... I'll add as I go along...
- Curling up on the sofa with a mug of hot cocoa on a cold and/or rainy day
- DVD Box Set (don't know why, just love it), Star Wars/Star Trek/Battlestar Gallactica... whatever collectibles that'll make me go WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE ^O^
- Fruits (very long list - mango, mangosteen, rambutan, dragonfruit (esp. red 1!), LOVE FIGS, cherry, plum, peach, lychee, grapes, oranges, pear, apples, AVOCADO, and it goes on and on...
- Grilled/Smoked/BBQ meats, seafood, vegetables... mmmmmm
- Lobster (haha! this always reminds me of Peter from Family Guy: ROCK LOBSTER!!)
- Nuts: almond, pistachio, walnut, cashew, brazil nut, pumpkin and sunflower seeds (ok, not nuts)
- Rainy days = happy days
- Sakura (Cherry Blossoms) haaaaaa
- SALMON nom nom nom nom nom
- smell of cinnamon and freshly baked breads... mmmm...
- Smoothies, Shakes, Yoghurts, Ice Cream, GELATO... (yummm)
- Strawberries, blueberries, all berries...
- the color Red, Sky Blue and Earth Green
- TRAVEL!!! ^_^
- UNAGI... yummmm...